Things Happen For a Reason

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Sometimes people come into your life

and you know right away that they were meant to be there,

 to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,

or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be.  Possibly your roommate or neighbour,

professor or long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger.

 but when you lock eyes with them,  you know at that very moment

 they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you

 that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first,

but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles

you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason.

Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,

and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

 Without these small tests, whatever they may be,

life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.

It would be safe and comfortable,

 but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life,

and the success and downfalls you experience,

help to create who you

are and who you become.

Even the bad experiences can be learned from.

In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

 If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,

for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.

If someone loves you,

love them back unconditionally,

Not only because they love you, but because in a way,

they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count.

Appreciate every moment and take from those moments

everything that you possibly can

for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people that you have never talked to before,

 and actually listen.

 Walk the footsteps of a stranger

 and you’ll learn things you never know.

Let yourself fall in love, break free,

and set your sights high.

Hold your head up because

you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual

and believe in yourself,

 for if you don’t believe in yourself,

 it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish.

Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

“The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post.”

Happy New Year

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Every new year comes with lot of excitement, adventure and aspiring dreams.We do several promises to ourselves,some are about quiting bad habits and some about following good things.

Last year gives us lot of memories. They might be good or bad but finally they taught us a lesson and give us a bunch of experience. The real and smart person is that who learn from his mistakes,his past and proceeds for the betterment.

“I am the survivor of bad things
that had happened to me.
I will overcome my hard times.
I will overcome my past.”

I hope you all have some dreams and promises for this very new year. Enjoy your life no matter how many difficulties you faces. But keep one thing in mind never hurt anyone in your life. If you are not able to help someone or make him happy then you have no right to hurt him. Try to spread love and humanity among peoples. ,not get contained or reserved in yourself only. Be the hand giver, make a promise to yourself to help others. Believe me you will feel great.

Here i am presenting a small poem for u all wishing you a very prosperous new year.

In the New Year, let’s resolve
to get less stressed, upset, anxious
about things over which we have no control.
Lets have a narrower focus on our lives,
loving and helping our family and friends,
making our community a better place to live,
to create peace and contentment.

In the New Year, let’s resolve
to pay less attention to depressing stories
on TV, in magazines and newspapers,
and to stop focusing on what we want
that we haven’t got,
instead of appreciating
the many blessings we do have.

In the New Year, let’s look for the good.
We may have to search
through a mass of negative media,
but the good is there,
all around us.

I wish for you a New Year filled with good,
engulfed in serenity and happiness!

सस्ती होती मौत पर बढ़ती ख़ामोशी[गिरती मानवता या बढ़ता लालच???]

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सुना है लोग जब कुछ करने में असमर्थ रहते हैं तो वो अपनी ख़ामियों को सुधारने की जगह परिस्थितियों और प्रसाधन की कमियों को जिम्मेदार ठहरा देते हैं।पर अगर प्रसाधन उपलब्ध होने पर भी वो इसी तरह असमर्थ रहते हैं तो हम इसको क्या कहेंगे???

17 दिसंबर को भोपाल के इन्द्रपुरी इलाके में कुछ ऐसी दर्दनाक घटना घटी जो अत्यंत शर्मनाक और अमानवीय थी।इस घटना में एक बेकाबू ट्रक ने 11 वीं के छात्र को कुछ इस तरह से कुचला की उसकी मौके पर ही मौत हो गई।

सवाल यहाँ पर खड़ा होता है की क्या आजकल की दुनियां में बस पैसा ही सब कुछ रह गया है? क्या इंसान की जान की कोई कीमत नहीं है?

शर्म की बात है की मात्र 20रु में हमारे पुलिस कर्मियों ने उस ट्रक को नो एंट्री इलाके में घुसने की अनुमति दे दी।उससे भी ज्यादा शर्म की बात यह है की हमारी सरकार ने इन रक्षकों को 25 लाख की लक्ज़री कार मुहैया कराई है ताकि ये हमारी रक्षा कर सकें। समय पर तुरन्त पहुंच कर घायलों को सुविधा उपलब्ध करा सके।

पर असल में हुआ क्या ???

जिस जगह यह घटना घटी वहां से मात्र 300 मीटर की दूरी पर पुलिस चौकी थी पर हमारे महान जन रक्षकों को वहा पहुचने में मात्र 40 से 50 मिनट ही लगे।इनकी सफारी इतनी तेज गति से जो चलती है।
इससे भी अमानवीय यह है की घटना के एक घंटे बाद भी छात्र के शव के अवशेष सड़क पर ही पड़े रहे। बाद में शव के अवशेषों को सड़क के किनारे फूटपाथ की मिट्टी से ढक दिया गया। भीड़ छटने के बाद आवारा कुत्ते वहां पहुचे और मिट्टी को हटाकर अवशेषों को नोचते रहे।

क्या हमारे अंदर मानवता तनिक भी नहीं रही???

क्या हमारी जान की कीमत मात्र 20रु. रह गई है???

क्या पैसों के लिए हमारा वजूद इतना गिर गया है???

जब कानून के रक्षक ही भक्षक बन जाए तो फिर जनता कहा जाएगी?लोगों की सुरक्षा सँभालने वाले ही अगर चंद रुपयों में अपना कर्म भूल जाए तो फिर इस देश का भविष्य आप खुद ही समझ सकते हैं।

इस तरह के अमानवीय और संवेदनहीन कृत्य का मैं विरोध करता हूँ।

और मैं यही प्रार्थना करता हूँ की हे! ईश्वर उस छात्र की आत्मा को शांति देना और उसके परिवार को इस अत्यंत दुःख को सहन करने की छमता प्रदान करना।

I Hope You Understand Me!!!(a humble request of mother)[Heart Touching]

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Oh my dear child…

I’m getting old,
I hope you understand and have
patience with me…

In case I break a plate,
or spill soup on the table because
I’m loosing my eyesight,
I hope you don’t yell at me
Older people are sensitive
…always having selfpity when you yell.

When my hearing get worse
and I can’t hear what you’re saying,
I hope you don’t call me “Deaf!!!”
Please repeat what you said
or write it down…

I’m sorry my child
…I’m getting old

When my knees get weaker,
I hope you have the patience to
help me get up.
Like how I used to help you
while you were little,
learning how to walk…

Please!!! Bear with me…
When I keep repeating myself
like a broken record,
Please don’t make fun of me
or get sick of listening to me.

Do you remember when you’re little
and you wanted a balloon?
You repeated yourself over and over
until you got what you wanted.

…please also pardon my smell
I smell like an old person
Please don’t force me to shower.
My body is weak…
Old people get sick easily when they’re cold.
I hope i don’t gross you out.

Do you remember when you were little?
I used to chase you around
Because you didn’t want to shower

I hope you can be patient with me
when I’m always cranky
It’s all part of getting old.
You will understand when you’re older.

And if you have spare time,
I hope we can talk even for a few minutes
I’m always all by my self all the time
and i have no one to talk to.
I know you’re busy with your work
Even If you’re not interested in my stories,
Please have time for me.

Do you remember when you were little?
I used to listen to your stories
about your teddy bear.
When the time comes
and I’ll get ill and bedridden,
I hope you have the patience to take care of me.

I’M SORRY

If i accidentally wet the bed
or make a mess
I hope you have the patience to
take care of me during the last
Few moments of my life.

I’m not going to last much longer,anyway.
When the time of my death comes
I hope you hold my hand
And gave me the strength to face death

And don’t worry…

When I finally meet our creator…
I’ll whisper in his ear to BLESS you
Beacuse you loved me
Thank you so much for your care.

“I LOVE YOU”

I’m Sorry[From the Core of my Heart]

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I’m sorry…

For WHAT???

For loving you so much
For missing you

I’m sorry for wanting to see you everyday…

For thinking about you before going to sleep
For feeling upset if I don’t see you
For wanting to be by your side

I’m sorry for wanting to make you HAPPY…

For wanting you to be part of my life
For trying to make you smile
For always standing by your side

I’m sorry for bothering you…

For caring you too much
For dreaming about you all the time
For all the madness i have for you

I’m sorry for seeing my EVERYTHING in you…

For insisting you to meet me everyday
For trying to make you best
For seeing my ANGEL in you

I’m sorry for thinking that you LOVED me…

For annoying you with my calls and messages…
For begging for your love
For asking you to come back in my life

I’m just…

Sorry for each single mistake i made

GOOD BYE!!!

A Tribute to Bhopal Gas Tragedy[The Darkest Night]

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3rd Dec was one of the blackest day in the history of India. The leakage of about 40 tonnes of toxic methyl iso cyanide(MIC) from the Union Carbide factory led to this tragedy.
A mixture of poisonous gases flooded the city, causing great panic as people woke up with a burning sensation in their lungs.
More than 20,000 peoples were killed and much more than this got permanently disabled.

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The memeories of this day always wet our eyes.This day always make us remember how trivial interest of few people can lead to death and destruction of others. Human error and lack of industrial safety had converted this tragedy into one of the most devastating industrial activity in human history. The saddest part is that, even after 31 years the victims of this tragedy had not been properly compensated. Let’s convey our full support to the victims of this tragedy

Let’s pray for peace of the soul of all who have lost their lives and for the welfare of who are still suffering.

Sensitive People[Truth of Life]

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“Sensitive people should be treasured.They love deeply and think deeply about life.

They are loyal,honest and true.

The simple things sometimes mean the

most to them.
They don’t need to change or harden.
There purity makes them who they are.”

I think you all have many friends and fellow people around you. They love you care for you.

In this fast growing and changing world we
need to have real people and we only get such people when we have the capability
to recognize and judge such persons.

I have heard from every second person that
they are cheated by someone.

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Why does this happen?

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Are we not smart enough to reveal their nature?

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The answer to this question is quite simple. We are able to judge the person but the problem arises when we start believing on them blindly before analyzing them.

So I suggest you all that have a very few people in your life but they should be

THE REAL AND SENSITIVE ONE.
All the best ☺